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Success Stories
LaVerne McHaney …
LaVerne McHaney is a resident of Old Pueblo’s Oasis House for Women and serves as the House Manager for residents of one of our facilities. This is her story.
Before Oasis I was lost, but now I have truly found a new beginning. This is the first time since 1964 that I have been drug and alcohol free for two continuous years. With the help of divine assistance, Oasis has taught me how to open a door and look within. And I have discovered how great life can be without drugs.
As I think back to my days of active addiction, I can picture myself hitch-hiking to Oakland, a place where I could always pan handle money easily. I would open the door and step into the car and think to myself, “How great it would be to have a car!” But my addiction had complete control over my behavior. It was indeed true that I lived to use and I used to live. When I woke up in the morning my first thought was of how I was going to get money to get high that day. I did whatever it took – borrowed from those who would still lend to me or sell whatever I had, even if it did not belong to me.
All my life I had my mother to fall back on when things were not going well. I was always a functioning addict, with little or no money. I had tried recovery a few times, but I kept falling back to old places and old friends. When my mother passed away, everything changed. I tried living out in the streets, but after a mere 17 days of homelessness, I was indeed finished. I remember trying to wash my hands clean in a filthy Burger King bathroom. The sink was dirty, the water was dirty, and my hands would not come clean. I was through.
I called Nick and Leah Jones and inquired about a way to change my life. I wanted desperately to learn how to live my life without drugs but had no idea how to accomplish this goal. I was told that through the Jackson employment program if I applied myself fully, I would get a job in 3 weeks. Leah asked if I could do this, and my reply was, “Of course!” I knew I needed a new way of life, and I was willing to do whatever it took to become clean and sober.
Upon my arrival at the Oasis House for Women I quickly fell into the program. I went to my meetings, I found a church, I found a sponsor and above all I found a job of my choice. I listened at meetings, did what I was told and I looked up to people within the program with years of clean time. My life has changed so much. They say this program is a miracle, and I truly believe that it is a miracle.
I am now a productive member of society. When I came here I had only the clothing on my back. It was so exciting: one day finding a job, then getting a bank account and saving enough money to have a down-payment for my car! I now have resources I tap into whenever any road blocks appear upon my journey in life.
Old Pueblo Community Services has helped me in so many ways. Although I know I can never truly repay this agency for the kindness, support and opportunity I have acquired, it is indeed my pleasure to work in one of the transitional houses as a house manager. by LaVerne I. McHaney
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